Remember people are drawn towards genuine love and affection. Even the most stubborn person in the world has someone he or she listens to. Ask why?
All bosses require much more from their subordinates than they are willing to pay for and most times they get it. Either way be indispensable so you can at least negotiate a better pay when the need arises.
No matter how hard you strive to please a boss they want more! more! more! It is called the Oliver syndrome by my humble self
Wives please don't give yourself a justified reason not to take care of yourself. Remember your husband is more of a physical being than you are, emmm so please look good. You will thank me some day!
Men are drawn to confident women who equally know when to be silent and yet maintain their stand.
No man wants a woman who cant think for herself. Have a mind of your own O WOMAN! however the trick is to know when to be either aggressive, assertive or submissive!.
Have you ever considered the fact that once you don't talk as much you are perceived as smart! Lesson No 1 to one who has my kind of temperament.
All you bring out of yourself is what has already been deposited be it consciously or otherwise. Now the question is who did the depositing?
Never mistake one's silence to mean a particular thing for people keep silent for various reasons e.g 'I have nothing to say actually', ' I think my breath is funny right at this moment', 'hmmm...if only he/she knew', 'I like the way he talks...I have no clue what he is saying but he sure sounds good'
However you look at it Family comes first. You may affect the lives of the people of the world but if you cant touch the lives of those closest to you then...I stand corrected.
Looking and smelling good isn't as expensive as you think! Choose to and you would find cheaper ways to achieve your goal.
The moment you no longer find fulfilment in what you do, something is definitely wrong. Cheer up! you can fix it still. For example, if it is your job quit!ha ha ha just kidding. All I know is you can either quit and move somewhere else where you can find expression or you remain and stay miserable while you constantly complain. It is your choice after all. Nevertheless if you decide to stay you can still find fulfilment if you change your perspective. So how do you now see your job?
Now the immediate preceding statement I made is not in reference to Marriage. No quiting at all....Both of you should work it out. Note I said 'should' and not 'must' and this is because it takes two to tango! You feel me?
Yes I said it ... I am pleased to be ME. ARE YOU?
7 comments:
Nice write up...Very inspiring.
I believe these thoughts were meant for me...if it were a sermon I would have said..'That pastor was sure speaking to me'
Because like you said happiness is the key.We all at some point deserve to be.I was inspired.
Hmmmmmm, candid words. I just was wondering while reading through if these were just thoughts or a product of a dedicated survey on all issues addressed.
On the Oliver syndrome issue, my boss wants more of more of more of more...lol. And what do I do? Quit? "The Blog Author" would always say, "Be a step ahead" and believe me it works cos you just become indispensable.
These thoughts to me, don't come out just as mere thoughts...perhaps a genuine professional advice from the engine room of a life coach.
Wives, hmmm, listen oh, she has spoken from our stand point, seriously.
Am learning really fast and from the best. Thumbs up Angela, this dart went straight to the middle point...and more of these "thoughts" please.
I perfectly agree with u that one can always move about the earth, once a portion of it is tight!
nice one Angy. Plenty Nuggets to chew on!!!
Hummm ..nice thoughts..especially.."people are drawn towards genuine love and affection"...But unfortunately, it is scarce nowadays to find such..Truely the world is coming to an End. Men have become lovers of themselves only..Thank God people like you Angie..who spend their precious time to inspire and educate people in the right direction. God bless you dear.
NICE ONE SIS! NICE BLOG! :)
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