...there is always a better way
Monday, 18 June 2012
The Positive Side of Fear
...there is always a better way
Wednesday, 13 June 2012
write...
When you write thoughts down you easily see the flaws in them. Assessing your motives /rationale behind your thoughts is one thing a pen and paper would do for you.
Write those thoughts down !NOW...
...there is always a better way to do what you think you have become a master of
Tuesday, 17 April 2012
Just my thots for this present minute!
Remember people are drawn towards genuine love and affection. Even the most stubborn person in the world has someone he or she listens to. Ask why?
All bosses require much more from their subordinates than they are willing to pay for and most times they get it. Either way be indispensable so you can at least negotiate a better pay when the need arises.
No matter how hard you strive to please a boss they want more! more! more! It is called the Oliver syndrome by my humble self
Wives please don't give yourself a justified reason not to take care of yourself. Remember your husband is more of a physical being than you are, emmm so please look good. You will thank me some day!
Men are drawn to confident women who equally know when to be silent and yet maintain their stand.
No man wants a woman who cant think for herself. Have a mind of your own O WOMAN! however the trick is to know when to be either aggressive, assertive or submissive!.
Have you ever considered the fact that once you don't talk as much you are perceived as smart! Lesson No 1 to one who has my kind of temperament.
All you bring out of yourself is what has already been deposited be it consciously or otherwise. Now the question is who did the depositing?
Never mistake one's silence to mean a particular thing for people keep silent for various reasons e.g 'I have nothing to say actually', ' I think my breath is funny right at this moment', 'hmmm...if only he/she knew', 'I like the way he talks...I have no clue what he is saying but he sure sounds good'
However you look at it Family comes first. You may affect the lives of the people of the world but if you cant touch the lives of those closest to you then...I stand corrected.
Looking and smelling good isn't as expensive as you think! Choose to and you would find cheaper ways to achieve your goal.
The moment you no longer find fulfilment in what you do, something is definitely wrong. Cheer up! you can fix it still. For example, if it is your job quit!ha ha ha just kidding. All I know is you can either quit and move somewhere else where you can find expression or you remain and stay miserable while you constantly complain. It is your choice after all. Nevertheless if you decide to stay you can still find fulfilment if you change your perspective. So how do you now see your job?
Now the immediate preceding statement I made is not in reference to Marriage. No quiting at all....Both of you should work it out. Note I said 'should' and not 'must' and this is because it takes two to tango! You feel me?
Yes I said it ... I am pleased to be ME. ARE YOU?
...there is always a better way
Thursday, 23 February 2012
Words=YOU
Especially to your loved ones, let your words be true, yes they have no choice but to love you irrespective but your words may start to mean nothing to them. Trust is earned, your words are YOU!
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Sunday, 29 January 2012
What to do when you don't know what to do
Ok! So what do you then do in a scary situation? Most times doubt is the first thing that comes out of our mouths, but the truth is the moment we speak positively and speak faith, fear has no other option but to leave.
Right! So what do you in a terrifying situation? Look at the scary situation....
Emmm ...what do you do in a situation of lack? It is simple.. GIVE!. Giving is the key to receiving. You may think you don't have anything to give but that is because you have refused to see what you have as a seed. So my point is no matter how in lack you think you are in, you will always have seed in your hands to sow into fertile ground and it is only a matter of time....roses will bloom again.
So what do then do in a challenging situation? Draw on the strength you have from within and from above. Allow genuine friends and family show you love and attention 'cos God knows you will need every bit of it.
So what do you do in a tiring situation? Sleep!
But what if I don't want to sleep?... Then you are on your own.
...there is always a better way
Friday, 13 January 2012
FUEL SUBSIDY BATTLE
As we all pray and as We continue to profess restoration for our country, Let us remember to ask God for forgiveness too ...
...For it is written, Thou shall not speak evil of the ruler of thy people. Act 23:5
Two wrongs will never make a right &wisdom is profitable 2direct.
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He suffered no man to do them wrong: yea, he reproved kings for their sakes. Saying, touch not mine anointed, and do my prophets no harm. Ps.105:14-15
(God is not asleep)
God forbid us from speaking evil of our leaders . Please do not join people to abuse the president or any of our leaders, it is against the word of God.
Remember the story of King Saul!
We are instructed to pray for the peace of our country Nigeria, that is the only way we can have peace. God will answer!
Curses are an empowerment to fail. GEJ has been cursed so much in the past week. He cannot be expected to make any meaningful decisions thru this.
In the same vein, blessings are an empowerment to succeed. Let's bless our president and our country.
So many have been guilty of insulting him too. Let's be watchful of the things we say. Nothing is taken for granted in the spiritual realm, neither jokes nor things said carelessly.
Remember, d Word of God on our lips is God speaking. So speak peace upon Nigeria &Wisdom 4those in authority. D future of our Nation is dependent on d right words spoken by us. Regardless of how u feel pls do d right thing by speaking d right words.
God bless u, Shallom.
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Wednesday, 11 January 2012
Be angry! NOT...yes?...no?
You do not want to be sick, bitter, and ugly. Have u seen a sick , bitter and ugly slave??? Hmmmm not a good sight at all. Rise above your anger! You are more than a slave, you are a free moral agent. So choose to rise above your anger and channel it right. Selah
Riversongs wrote...
Change the way you think and you will drastically change your outcomes!
Jon!
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Wednesday, 4 January 2012
AIGH
I want to be a source of joy to many
I want to better the lives of people
I want to establish and empower people
I want to create an avenue where great minds can discuss and come up with solutions
I want to be the founder of a great institution where every good thing is a possibility
Guess what it starts NOW! emmmmmm we are waiting for YOU
tick tick tick!!!
PEOPLE ARE DIFFERENT
Life is wonderful because a kind person can in one minute be kind; the next minute is foolish, the next minute be silly and finally settle back to his or her kind self. I am saying this because I have met people with funny characters especially at my working environment. It would take a lot to try and deal with some types of people but it is possible.
What is imperative is understanding what you want from a person and understanding boundaries that have been placed which you must respect about every individual. This is because you do not know what people have been through all their lives and the issues they are presently dealing with making them the way they are now. Try and put yourself in the other person's shoes once in a while and you may appreciate why they have turned out as nasty or as wicked as they are now. People may have been taken for granted, treated harshly, been disappointed several times, or may have been abused for such a long while that they turned out as nasty as they are now. If you put yourself in their shoes it may be easy to deal with them and with love in your heart.
Now don’t get me wrong I am one person who believes you should not allow the issues of life affect you negatively that you now become repulsive or a terror to others around you. I don’t believe you should become so ugly in character and personality just because of what life has thrown at you. Instead it is possible to still radiate dignity, poise, beauty and still remain a person everyone would like to be in contact with irrespective of your history.
The next thing to do is determine why you are where you are with that same ‘nasty’ person and for how long you would need to be in constant contact with that person. If you are clear about your priorities you will readily ignore a lot and not let certain things bother you as such. If however you are the ‘nasty’ person do take note that it is just a matter of time….life will throw more your way that would keep you in that state…what goes around comes around! You can’t eat your cake and have it..whatever you sow you reap!
...remember there is always a better way


